FLIRT VS SOCIALIZE (mine and some people opinion ^_^)

Flirt and socialize are 2 great diff thing so far i ask many people =)

their answer is a sure [flirt is diff then socialize]

when it comes to explaining their points...

really no joke there are many diff type 1 XD..

some of the answer =

Example A:

Flirt is a negative thing...Socialize is a positive thing...

Example B:

treating some1 more maybe can make people misunderstand...

Example C:

Flirt can be in term of disturbing opposite sex...while socialize could be in term of making friend =)

The differences are kinda hard to know...

Basically if u mix with the opposite sex a lot...

people might think u r flirting..

but what if u just wan2 make friends...

well mainly all these stuff is based on people views towards certain people =)

Well i had ask some question regarding what looks like flirt and socialize =)

examples =)

lets say a guy who have a gf already...he tends to pay the bill...if the eating place is "mamak" then its consider socialize XD...but if the place is somewhere romantic means the guy is trying to flirt XD...but it also depends on how his gf looks into it =) certain girls have their own level of flirt decision towards their guy =)some even at some fastfood outlet[McD, Pizza Hut, etc..] also can be consider flirt XD

Well next thing is that if a guy always mingle with girls...some may say he is trying to flirt...which same goes to if girls does it...the way guys flirt with girls and girls flirt with guys...are kinda different i think...they have their own ways of doing so =)

for girls...to detect a guy who is trying to flirt with u...

-he loves to talk with u...

-will try his very best to get ur attention...

-if he did many physical contact [lik pat ur shoulder] it could mean he is tryin to flirt with you...

for guys...to detect a girl who is tring to flirt with you...

-she will for sure try to get ur attention...

-do some 'manja' stuff maybe like 'the very hieau type' [gerdik]

for girls...to detect a guy who is actually socializing...

-he will speak and control the conversation well...

-his actions[body language] which are himself and not different means he is being himself...

for guys...to detect a girl who is actually socializing...

-she will not pay much attention is grabbing ur attention...

-she not showing those very hieau movements...

-she talk with real facts...[speak bout topics]

well those are some stuff that i think about this 2 words XD

if there are some pointers that u have please leave a comment =)

i don mind adding into it =)